"男士的約會禮儀（上）"

約會壓力可是不小。你要和一個你不認識的人見面，看看你們兩人是否想要成為情侶或是從此不再相見。還有，約會時說的或做的（或沒做的）一些事，可能會讓一個好的約會對象變成你不想再看到的人。

在男士的部分，有一些常見的錯誤可以輕易解決。首先，談論前女友是個大忌。你是來認識新朋友的，所以重點放在這位新朋友身上。當你這麼做的時候，試圖放鬆而自然地去了解對方，而不是問題一個接著一個像是在面試工作一樣。約會時很少事情可以比感到像處在聚光燈下犯錯還要令人更不自在了。

既然你也要向你約會的對象展現出你是怎麼樣的人，試著藉由你代表你自己的方式來達成。當你想要賣東西，你著重在它的優點，對吧？推銷自己也一樣，你可能知道你的缺點是什麼，留到第三次或第四次約會吧，此時她對你了解得比較多。

(Life) Mens Manners on a Date (part 1)

Dating can be stressful. You need to meet someone you dont know and see if the two of you might want to become romantic partners or never see each other again. And, during the date, there are some things that may be said or done (or sometimes NOT done) that can totally turn a great date into someone you really dont want to see again.

On the mens part, there are some common mistakes that can be easily fixed. For one, talking about an ex is a big no-no. You are here to meet someone new, so focus on the new person. And while youre doing that, try to keep things relaxed and natural as youre getting to know them, rather than asking question after question like youre doing a job interview. Few things can make someone more uncomfortable on a date than feeling like theyre under a spotlight and may make a mistake.

Since you are also showing your date the person you are, try to approach it as though youre a representative of yourself. When you want to sell something, you focus on its good features, right? Do the same with yourself, and while you may know what your flaws are, save them for the third or fourth date, when she knows you better.

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